Sunday, April 26, 2009

Going to the bathroom makes me nervous...?


Well I can finally say my Husband and I are at the peak of our comfort level. I never thought I would be this open with another person. When we first moved in together I had to register for a radio to put in the bathroom because I was so terrified that he would hear me use the restroom. So I did the only normal thing possible and for the first two months every time I went to the bathroom I would turn the radio up loud, and on occasion I would sing along with the music. Now, things have changed I no longer need the music on to get me in the restroom mood. I can go about my business and feel confident my man will love me no matter what noises may come from behind the closed door. Okay, so I may have just given a ton of information that was completely unnecessary but it's to prove how truly good I feel in my own skin living with my new husband. At first, you think that it will be a hard adjustment living with someone of the opposite sex but when you have ultimate love that's God blessed things just work. I am amazed at how far I have come in my relationship and loving every minute of being married. I can't wait to see what the next 4 months brings.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Life's fast better hold on...


So married life is the "tits!" I am starting to get used to San Francisco, not loving it yet, but getting used to it. The people in my apartment complex are an interesting crowed. My personal favorite is the limber Asian woman who crawls on all the exercise equipment and does aerobics nearly 7 days a week in short-shorts and then follows it up with smoking a cigarette while doing the splits on a wall. I am just amazed at all she does and I have a fun time trying to figure out her occupation. I have thought trainer, phone operator or nanny. All fitting but still up in the air. She is just one of many the other day I saw a man pushing a grocery cart down the hall and didn't even give him a second look. Yes, I am starting to really appreciate how different people are here like the homeless man who drops his pants in the morning to take a piss on one of the cars parked outside. Suck it in, that's the fresh ocean air. I have been spending most of my time inside my apartment rather than outside. Work is getting busier than ever and my new husband's school is getting more demanding. They say marriage is bliss and at this point I must agree. It's exciting to have a partner to help you when your dog gets fleas or you need someone to go to the store for tampons. I am loving living with my man all the time now and we are lucky in love. I pity the fool who has to date loser and stuck up guys and wish every gal would have their own "Western, Brad Western that is!" This city is my new home and it's starting to feel like it. My sister visited and I am excited for a parents drop in soon. Life is moving so fast right now all that's left to do is just hold on!